What is a series about online dating doing on a psychology blog? The quality of a person’s relationships is synonymous with mental health.  And, if you’re single you’re in a relationship with dating.   You may be dating a lot, a little, or avoiding it entirely.  No matter which best describes you, you’re in a relationship with dating–and most likely online dating is a major part of this relationship. As a practicing clinical psychologist in New York City, adventures in online dating are a part of the conversation with literally every single one of the unattached patients I treat.   Some people do have success with online dating.  However, one thing I have never heard a patient say is: “I love online dating.  It’s so much fun.” I don’t claim my sample is representative, but my patients’ view is consistent with commentary I’ve received from friends and colleagues. The refrains are consistent.   “It’s annoying.”  “Lots of shady people.”  “It’s a major time suck.”   “People look nothing like their pictures.”  “She ghosted me.” And so on… With all …